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Anonymous · Lagos1h 0m left
Hello sir wiz, I'm a guy, 22, student, I've been dating my girl for a year, I've been good to her, no cheating and all, I provided a lot for her cause I've been doing well for myself for a while, but when things became slow on my end, she comes over and refuses to cook blatantly, and accuses pt 1 She accuses me of cheating, and being unfaithful meanwhile she has access to my phone password and WhatsApp, but there's usually nothin on there but she insists that I'm hiding something, few days ago she came to my place for a few days and while she was sleeping I picked her phone, and saw pt 2 Saw Her talking with two guys, the two of them she claimed to me in the past that they're nothing to worry about but she talks to them and calls them love and stuff, even made plans to meet them, in the morning I confronted her and asked her to show me those chats on her phone but she already pt3 She already deleted it, unknowing to her that I had video evidence of the whole conversation, then showed it to her, she kept saying that she has never met them and doesn't like them, what do I do in a situation like this ? I can't wrap my head around the fact that I've been blamed for pt4 I've been blamed for cheating meanwhile she's been the one hiding things.
237 votes
Anonymous · Nigeria2h 0m left
Sir wiz I think or hope I'm the luckiest guy among few people. So I met this girl from a fuck buddy I saw her on my fuck buddies status got her number then she was still dating I discovered she's a virgin, well I played my game and got her I also dis-virgined her. She's lovely she loves me.. Part 2 I usually spend on her but things got bad and I told her about it thinking she'll leave but this girl has actually left her work and wants to come to my state to stay with me so we can work things out together she even sent me money saying it's savings from what I've been sending her 😭😭😭 Part 3 I pray God blesses me man I'm working hard to wife this girl she's rare in this +234 girls. She showed me her parents where she's from and everything man I want to fucking wife 😭😭
326 votes
Anonymous · Lagos3h 0m left
5.her,her mom is Ill. Explain to her that I understand everything she's probably going through but I needed her to also understand that and by myself here in Lagos without any family member her family is sponsoring her in school mine did not sponsor me in school so I had to drop out I've been workin 6. Just to put a roof over my head and I haven't gone back to school now the money for my rent she hasn't given it to me I'll be facing eviction by May and I've been texting and calling her I even had to text her brothers but nobody is answering me and nobody is telling me what they use my money for 7. Currently I am not working because I am looking for a better paying job that is stable and I am sick I've been on medication for the past 6 months I can't even afford my drugs anymore I keep pleading with this girl and whenever I get mad and remind her of things that she had done in the past she 8. She keeps trying to gaslight me and plead for more Grace but I know that I'm never going to get that money again and to be honest with you I have learned my lesson. SirWiz, I totally understand the current situation of the economy but if there's any way you can assist me in avoiding eviction and 9. Please help me secure a good paying job I will honestly be grateful I don't have time to be going back and forth with that girl because she's far from my reach. I have tried everywhere possible I couldn't think of anything else than to write anonymously please sir
415 votes
Anonymous · Nigeria4h 0m left
Hello Sir Dick Since we started this year I have been on RAW with three girls even though I intentionally pour it there none of them had come out to say they're pregnant. I'm suggesting if I am a MAN. What is the way out please where do I start from
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Anonymous · NigeriaSettled
Good morning sir wiz, I recently had a dream about me and this lady having sex . In reality, I know this girl but we haven't talked before. Now days after that dream, the girl started acting strange to me, acting seductive and giving me some kind of look. Pls what could this mean? I don't understand
Approach her: 62%Leave it: 38%
413 votes
Anonymous · Nigeria6h 0m left
Good day Mr D. My wife asked for 1m out of 10m which was the whole money i have at that moment so i said absolutely not! The 1m is not for business or the home, it's to buy clothes, hair, flex etc... isn't she being unreasonable considering 10m is not a lot of money.
502 votes
Anonymous · Nigeria7h 0m left
Good afternoon sir wiz.. abeg see matter o, me and my babe has been cool for a while and all of a sudden she came up with she wants to end things and the way she said it, it was real asf... so i didn't bother to like force or ask question or sort.. cause she was like there is no need to ask so i was Chill and cool about the thing and she was saying stuff thar made her, bitter towards me and she said she is kinda like unforgiving and stuff, so i just played cool only for her to tell me its a tik tok prank and that she saw her friend do it and post on her status, and since i said life moves on, She mean the break up thing, and that i would be fine bla bla bla Its making me kinda confused tho... i really don't know if i should just let her be or we talk about it or something... will be in the comment section boss.
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Anonymous · Nigeria8h 0m left
As the Web3 space is no longer booming and i'm broke. I followed my elder brother to consult an IFA priest and the man said i'm broke because I have Disappointed a lady and her head is not pleased. Now I am confused. He said i have to do "Etutu" pls advise me
500 votes
Anonymous · Nigeria9h 0m left
Pt1 Sir D, I'm 22 and just started working, earning ₦200k monthly. My father has 15 children and is now retired. I'm the 7th child and currently the only one working. My mum has 7 children, and my dad's second wife has 6. Pt2, There's a lot of financial pressure from my dad-he often asks me for money. But honestly, I feel my younger siblings are in greater need. Things are already tight for me, so I send ₦50k monthly to my mum to support my younger ones. As for my dad, I give him what I can afford whenever he asks. Pt3, Sometimes I go completely broke, but I still try not to touch my small savings. In those moments, I tell him I don't have anything. Lately, it seems he's upset with me-he no longer picks my calls. At least I care about the younger, Did I do anything wrong?
409 votes
Anonymous · Ghana10h 0m left
Please, I would like you to post this for me on your page. I'm really confused right now. I have been in a secret relationship with my cousin for about a year, and I want to marry her. However, I don't know what the outcome will be if my parents find out.We are both Ga- is this allowed in Ga trad?
498 votes
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Anonymous · NigeriaSettled
Am in love with a window who lost her Husband few years back, she's 25 while am 32 . good thing is she loves me as well and we have been so intimate sexually as well. but there's a problem , she is also in love with another man. she told me she's confuse at the moment . Cont'd. We had a conversation few days back and she said she want to get serious with the other man but then still in love with me and can't afford to loose, I told her I can't be an option for anyone, I need an advise either to stay put of to move on.
Stay: 53%Move on: 47%
587 votes
Anonymous · Russia12h 0m left
1. Sir dick. Gm. I am in a dilema, i am in russia and i am currently dating an asian girl in a far away country Indonesia. The problem now is that she loves me so much and i do too but it will be really difficult for us to meet now since both of us are still schooling and flight money is very 2. Very expensive. We chat everyday for long hours and sometimes she takes away my study time. So recently i got in contact with a russian girl and she likes me too. Like we have started professing love to each other. She says she wants us to be in a relationship and she stays in a city thats like 3. 6 hrs away by flight. We plan on meeting two months from now and obviously something will go on. But i don't know what to do, i can't be dating 2 women the same time and if the Indonesia girls knows she might kill herself. What should i do?
676 votes
Anonymous · Nigeria13h 0m left
Hi sir dick please post this ,if you caught your girlfriend cheating and you accused her of cheating and she broke up with you immediately and she doesn't feel guilty about it or fell remorse does this means this girls never love the guy?
765 votes